1. Have sex with him as often as possible. It seems simple, but often we forget that we need a lot of sex. Then he will not have sexual hunger, and he will more likely remain true. In addition, during sex, the hormone oxytocin is secreted, which, in addition to pleasant feelings, strengthens your relationship. This is literally a biological way to bind a partner to yourself.
2. Have sex with him, even when you do not want. If you sit and wait until you want sex at the same time, it will take a long time. Usually should be the instigator. Be it! It does not have to be an hour program, especially if you are very tired. Just give each other pleasure.
3. Always tell him when you are excited. It doesn't matter where you are at this moment and what you are doing. Any man will appreciate this - a passionate text message with the words that they want him, a quiet whisper in my ear at the table with friends. Every person needs a reminder that he is welcome.
4. Create shared sexual fantasies. It's like shared memories - they bring together.Therefore, discuss what you would like to do together. Well, you understand;)
5. Notice when he is excited. Some guys talk about it themselves, while others are more modest. But you must learn to notice - maybe he bites his lip, or starts fidgeting in his chair. Pay attention to such sex signals and act accordingly.
6. Talk to him about masturbation. Do not be afraid of this topic. Ask when he usually does it (and everyone does, believe me) how excited he is. Such conversations will make your communication easier and more open, and increase the likelihood that the next time, by self-satisfaction, he will think about you, and not about the waitress in a nearby cafe.
7. The same goes for your masturbation. Tell him about it! Most guys are very interested and exciting. Your candor will be another plus in your relationship for him.
8. Make even non-sexual things sexy. Suppose you are doing home repairs, or have come to your grandmother for the weekend. Why not catch the moment and not have sex in a precarious situation? You are ready for experiments, which means that he will not look for them on the side.
9. Remind him that you like his body.This is especially important for couples in long-term relationships, when people begin to age or gain weight. But he still needs to feel welcome.
Of course, we would like to say that the men would do the same for us, but if we sit back and wait for action from them, then we can not wait. So at least try to be worth it.