What they do not tell you about love

They do not tell you that you will spend most of your adult life trying to reproduce your first love experience. For some time, every new date, every new relationship, every new person you will fall in love with will constantly be subconsciously compared with the first person who has settled in your heart, and will still not reach it.

They do not tell you that first love is an unrestrained, insatiable beast,and that someday you will even be glad that you have found someone who can be better tamed. But for some time you'll miss that first wildness. And that's fine.

They do not say love is addiction.That it has an inexplicable ability to absorb every part of your being and makes you forget everything you wanted when it was not there. That you will never be ready to surrender to love, that you will lose common sense and you will go crazy, although you have promised yourself that this will never happen again. They don't tell you that first love is as strong as cocaine first use, and that itcompletely irrational dependence.

They do not tell you that love will act. That this is not always the free flow of adoration and attention. That sometimes love means a choice that you don’t want to make, and a road that you don’t want to take.They do not tell you that love can turn you into a person you don’t want to be.And that you have to learn a lot if you want to grow inside of love.


They do not tell you that love will break you.That once all the dreams that you had about love will be broken, and you can never fully recover from them. No matter how many more meetings, falling in love and real feelings, but you will never be the same, you will never look at love the way it was the first time.

They do not tell you that this is really good - now true real love will eclipse the made-up fairy-tale love that you have created in your imagination. But to achieve this, you have to go all the way. Alone, you can never recover from the first defeat.

They do not tell you that you will forget to be loved.That at a certain point in the development and movement of your life forward, love will fade into the background.What you gradually begin to forget is what it is like when you love, appreciate, cherish another person, with a real mind, heart and body, the same as yours. They do not tell you about the sad, inconsolable pain that grows inside you, the longer you allow yourself to forget that you long for love. They do not tell you that it is necessary like air and water, and no matter how desperately you try to prove the opposite, a tiny part of you will always be incomplete without it.


They do not tell you that love is a habit.That you can leave her, and that you can break the habit, how to give and accept love. That you will be angry with yourself, wondering how the doors of your heart have become so unstuck since you slammed them. That some old wounds will bleed again after the slightest touch, and that it will take time to heal them.They do not tell you that love can be forgotten, until suddenly, unexpectedly, it turns out that nothing is forgotten.They do not tell you that as soon as you try again, love will become a habit that cannot be eliminated.

They do not tell you that no one can tell what it is like to love.That this is such a unique experience that we can never understand what we got into until we find ourselves in the thick of love. They do not tell you how love will end for you, because they cannot.

Because for some things we just have no words.


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