When a girl doubts you, do not take it on a personal account. It's not so much about you as in her past, which taught her to be on the lookout.
Know that it will be straight and sharp.
When you meet a girl who doubts people, she will say everything as it is, because many people deceived her. But she will not do this and will not allow anyone else to do it with her.
Understand that she carefully guards her heart.
She can count on one hand people she can trust. She looks at everyone else with a little doubt. If you are as honest as she is, you will quickly understand why.
Know that she has a really kind heart that other people just used.
She watched as people just stomped around her, took what they wanted and left. There were moments when she wanted to be a little indifferent so that it would not hurt so much.
Understand that she has a big emotional burden.
Even if the wrong people were to blame, she still remembers everything that went wrong and blames herself. She can tell you about the past that is following her, which she must let go of. But can not. And you have to help her in this.
Know that she believes in the best, no matter what.
She saw the worst in people, but still remained good. She has every reason not to be so, but she continues to believe that her good will ever return to her.
Understand that she received a lot of what she did not deserve.
When others shifted their problems to her, she needed to be strong. And she gained this power, which is not immediately notice in her.
She had to learn to rely on herself.
She had to learn to get up every time someone hurt her or broke her heart. She learned how to live, no matter what.
Know that she is always waiting for the worst.
She expects the worst from everyone, from every situation. When someone gets used to being disappointed, he begins to lower his expectations. If they are low, you will not be hurt.
And she is waiting to catch you in a lie.
Not because she wants something bad to happen. It was just that there were so many times in her past, and if she stopped being alert, she was afraid of being deceived again. Teach her that she can trust you, and know that it will take time.
She will need you to convince her of this more than once.
She will ask you about the same thing more than once. She will ask a lot of questions. She will need these answers.
Her anxiety will protect her from the new pain.
There will be many scenarios in her head, but you have to be confident and let her know that she can rely on someone else except herself.
Know that you have to go with her at the same pace.
The only way to build a relationship with someone who doubts everyone is not to rush her. She will trust you when she is ready, when she feels that she can.
Understand that if you rush her, she will push you away.
She can't stand the pressure.
Trust is very important for her, but for now she can only trust herself.
She learned to trust herself and listen to her inner voice, which tells her about every disturbing symptom. It takes time to earn her trust, but the best in our lives is not easy.
She loves with all her heart, but did not meet someone who deserves it.
Previously, she gave all the best to those who were not worthy of it. And she understood it, though it was too late. Now she does not give her time and feelings to anyone.
But as soon as he is confident in you, you will receive her devotion and love. And this will change your life.