In fact, it’s not hard to find a boyfriend, if that’s really what you want. But it is difficult to find someone with whom you seriously want to be together, who will be ready to bear the title of your man, because there are really few worthy ones. But why?
1. Many of them are not very confident.
Women are becoming stronger and more influential, suppressing men in many ways and proving that they can do without them. That's why many guys become insecure. At heart, they know that they do not reach the type of men that such women deserve.
2. Men have become more lazy.
Not just lazy in their approach to life, but also in the approach to relationships and love. Most guys are no longer willing to make an effort. They are content with mediocre work, their mediocre opinion, and generally with their mediocrity, and then wonder why women do not want to meet with them.
3. It is difficult to find a man who would respect himself, not to mention respect for a woman.
Respect has become a rare trait not only of men, but of society as a whole. Judging by the behavior of many men, they do not respect women, and therefore do not respect themselves, if they admit this.
four.Many men like to just sit and complain.
The same respect must be earned. If he sits on the neck of his parents and actively comments on posts about men's rights, this does not make him worthy.
5. Many men consider themselves superior to women.
They truly believe that women live to please men. And if suddenly you dare to refuse him, you will hear “Whore” in your address and so on.
6. Losers and womanizer all spoil.
There are plenty of them too, and they definitely don’t fit into the title of boyfriend.
As you can see, finding a decent man is like meeting a unicorn. But a decent woman would rather wait for a unicorn than agree to a mediocre guy.