Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

After giving birth, each mommy tries to devote all her time only to him. But after a certain time has elapsed after the birth of a beloved child, the parent seeks to go to work, or there is an urgent need for this. Then begin thinking, with whom to leave the baby. First thought: Grandma! But when they can not, and you will spend a lot of time away from home, you should think about the nurse. Choosing her is also a tricky task, because people usually do not reveal their true character and skills during the first meeting. Here it is important to follow several rules.

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To begin, you need to decide how you will be looking for a specialist in education - ads in newspapers, recommendations of friends or the services of a personnel agency. The latter, of course, will provide a person who fully meets your requirements, but they will also ask for a rather large amount.In any case, making an appointment by phone to meet with a candidate for a position in your family, you must discuss all the conditions with her in advance. It is necessary to stipulate everything - starting with remuneration, work schedule, duties (maybe you will need ironing and cooking dinner) and ending with the availability of necessary health certificates.

For a personal meeting with a nanny, schedule at least an hour

For a personal meeting, schedule at least an hour. Moreover, it is desirable that at this time someone was at home with a child. Be sure to stipulate that your potential nanny should bring to the meeting the following documents: passport, diploma, recommendations from previous jobs, fresh (!) Medical certificates (marks from the IPA, a dermatologist, narcologist, results of fluorography, tests for HIV, hepatitis, RW, bakposev).

Be sure to overwrite the passport data and phone numbers of people who gave recommendations (try to ask in advance to make copies of your passport and recommendations at your expense and bring them to the interview). Do not forget to call these people and talk to them.

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7 important indicators that you need to focus on when choosing a nanny:

1. Punctuality;

2. Clean and tidy appearance;

3. Psychological compatibility with you;

4. How well the child feels with her;

5. Does the nanny fulfill any parental requirements for raising and caring for the baby;

6. Are there any symptoms of mental instability;

7. At the first conversation a good nanny will show interest in the child.

Establish a probationary period to observe the work of the nanny before taking it for a long time. Such a test will justify itself. Of course, it is better to be at home for several days, to give the baby some time to get used to a stranger, and the nanny to get used to it. You should not immediately allow her to take the child in her arms or to invade his “personal space”. It is better to wait until the child herself approaches the nanny, feels calm in the society of the new person.

Do not build relationships in such a way that the nanny feels like a family member (in this case, it will be harder for you to give her orders and demand from her). It is best to keep a distance, but at the same time, the relationship should be confidential.

The nanny can pet the baby, sit on his knees, but kiss him should not

The nurse is obliged to report new successes of the baby or about his problems, to tell in the smallest details everything that happened without you.A nanny should limit herself to bodily contact with the child. She can stroke him, make him sit on her knees. Without it, can not do. But kissing, sleeping with him in the same bed is not necessary.
Professionally trained nannies do not allow the baby to call themselves “mother”, it’s better to call her by name or simply “nanny”.

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  • Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules

    Choosing the perfect nanny: 7 important rules