5 secrets that you must finally tell your chosen one

These are our secret weaknesses and strengths, that we do not want everyone to know about us, that we deny in ourselves. This is a mirror in which we are afraid to look, because the reflection there does not coincide with reality.

This is where we deceive ourselves and find excuses that we don’t want to admit. These are personal wounds to the heart or injuries that are hard to remember. This is what we keep secret from everyone, even the most loved ones, to protect ourselves.
Often these secrets hide behind large emotional walls, and even if we really want to, it’s hard for us to talk about it. If you have such secrets, then you should finally tell them to the one you have chosen to be your companions:

1. I am afraid of opening up to a person, because I had earlier undergone violence or ridicule.

Maybe you had a psychological trauma in the past. For example, a child did his pants right at school and the whole class was laughing at him. Or it may be memories of sexual harassment in childhood. All this makes a person suppress his feelings, and for this, various dependencies often take place.

2. To satisfy myself, I watch porn and not have sex with a partner.

Perhaps because of some sexual psychological trauma, you feel like an unworthy partner for sex. Therefore, to meet their own needs, you resort to masturbation, not wanting to meet your own demons in real sex with your partner. But this is what she should confess.

3. My addiction allows me to forget about pain.

If the reason for your inadequate behavior lies not on the surface, then your partner should know this. Dependence can be not only on alcohol, drugs, but also on sex, overeating, TV, shopping, or gambling.

4. I jam my emotions.

Your emotional needs, which are not satisfied in a relationship, you will pick sweets during the midnight run to the kitchen. Secretly, while no one sees, you enjoy at least the food. But no chocolates will replace your feeling that you are truly loved and valuable.

5. I am afraid that if I confess to my weirdness, you will leave me.

But if we do not confess, we will never cope with our inner demons, with our psychological trauma and emotional needs.The truth may be a bit unpleasant, but living in a lie is even worse.

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    5 secrets that you must finally tell your chosen one